Turns out that there is a simpler way of dealing with optional values in c#.
Include FSharpx.Extras to your c# project and then you can do the following:
optionalValue.Match( ifSome: value => ProcessValue(value), ifNone: () => NoValueToProcess() );
Thanks to extension methods in this library. There are extension methods for other common discriminated unions as well.
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